When making new friends, please don't do these three points. It's too bad!

In social communication, people often have a headache to make new friends. Whether it's changing to a new school or a new company working environment, most people are still unwilling to be alone. We all want to get to know new friends quickly. So, what should we pay attention to when making new friends? How should we do it? How can we do it without stepping on thunder? We should pay attention to it. We must avoid these three points. It's too bad!

1. As soon as we know each other, we will talk about our miserable past.

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Although it looks funny, it's a common mistake that many people make. Sometimes, just knowing new friends can't help them from meeting their unpleasant people or things in their past lives. This is generally a mistake that people who have not always wanted to make new friends in the new environment in the past. Hope that their new friends can make complaints about themselves. But I don't know that this will often cause others' antipathy, especially when we first know each other, we don't understand each other. It's easy for others to think that it's because of your own problems, and they will stay away from you.

2. Pay little attention to personal image.

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This is also a very important point. People's first impression is to simply look at the appearance, not to look good, at least to keep clean and energetic, never to be sloppy or have a peculiar smell. This will make others label you as "no hygiene" or "sloppy", which will automatically be inferior to others without understanding your inner beauty, No one wants to make friends with this kind of people, so when entering a new environment, at least clean yourself up. In the workplace, women's makeup also represents the most basic respect for others.

3. Don't pay attention to polite language.

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It's also very important to say "thank you", "please" and "I'm sorry" often. This will leave a polite impression on others. It's also the most basic withdrawal and basic behavior of a person with good quality and reliable behavior. A person who often talks about polite expressions must have many friends in his life. It's very comfortable to get along with such people, As well as a sense of being respected, everyone wants this kind of good relationship, so impoliteness and disrespect are also taboos in interpersonal communication. In addition, it is also very important to distinguish between superior and subordinate. The use of honorifics for superiors or predecessors is also a manifestation of being cultivated and polite.