People with low EQ open their mouth and shut their mouth. It's no wonder they have bad luck

Speaking is an art. Smart people can say and pick up the key points. Stupid people either can't say or can't say the point. People with high EQ will have more and more friends whether they say it or not. People with low EQ will refuse people thousands of miles if they open their mouth. It's OK to have few friends, and even make enemies for themselves.

From the perspective of psychology, people like "sweet words". No one is interested in those bitter sentences. Everything in the world has a taste, and language is no exception. We often use words such as "taste like chewing wax" and "dull and tasteless" to describe the failure of an article, and we also use "mouth like wiping honey" to describe a person who can speak, even Confucius family language Zhongdu said, "good medicine tastes bitter, but good advice goes against the ear." they compared language to good medicine and added flavor.

Although Kong Laoer emphasizes that loyal words are contrary to the ear, in reality, sweet words are often more able to mobilize people's enthusiasm. If you can speak well, why should you speak badly? This is just like since honey has the effect of clearing heat and detoxification, we don't have to eat the bitterness of Coptis chinensis, and we should learn to be flexible.

Talking is a kind of wisdom. People with low EQ open their mouth and shut their mouth. It's no wonder that people with high EQ don't say so.

Complaining about negative energy

Everyone has bad thoughts, but some people know how to digest themselves, while others "cut constantly and manage disorderly" sow seeds everywhere to let them take root and sprout unscrupulously.

Negative energy is like yawning. It is contagious. In short, it is a psychological hint. Yawning implies "sleepy". Complaining is also a hint of injustice. People with high EQ will not directly complain about their inner dissatisfaction. Only people with low EQ will "ignite". Whenever they encounter something that makes them feel unfair, they immediately blow up the pot without thinking about the causes and consequences. They are desperate to get through the mouth addiction first.

Such people can easily be feared and avoided. There is a saying that "impulse is the devil". When people lose their reason, most of them are evil. No matter how gentle a gentleman is, his face will be ferocious when he complains. It is a virtue not to transmit negative energy, Those who often complain about saying negative energy words have low Eq.