Children lack of social and social reasons, parents' understanding and guidance, cultivate cheerful children

Once I chatted with a friend and talked about the problem that the child and other children were "out of group" in kindergarten. At the same time, I also received such feedback from the teacher, so she was very upset and didn't know what to do. 1-5-year-old children are energetic, and they are just beginning to understand the world. Children's "out of group" phenomenon is really everywhere, and we will find the answer for you.

Many parents see that their baby is not willing to participate in social activities and play with children, so they will label them as "worthless", which will only make them more introverted and unsocial. For example, to cultivate cheerful children, we need to understand their unwillingness first.

The reasons for children's "out of group"

On the one hand: Children's character is so

Some children are naturally introverted and afraid of contact with strangers. They are relatively quiet. Strange people and environment will bring him insecurity, so they will protect themselves in a silent way.

On the other hand: another expression of children

Children express their resistance to the outside world in the form of "silent shouting". This is inseparable from family education and the surrounding environment.

Therefore, children are not sociable is a common performance, we as parents do not need to worry too much, the correct way is to treat rationally and to guide education.

Children behave differently at each stage

Stage 1, 1-2-year-old children like to observe and imitate

Children at this stage will be curious about new things, so they are in a stage of cognition and observation of others. This also increases their imitation ability, but many times they prefer to play alone.

Although there are children playing with each other, they have not learned to share with others. If they are precocious, they may do better in this aspect.

Stage 2, 3-4-year-old children like to observe and share

At this stage, children have realized a lot of things. On this basis, they will share their favorite toys or novel things with their little friends.

Then we can observe each other in the process of playing the game. They often take their parents to find friends or go to the park to play with children.

Stage 3, 4-5-year-old children like to observe, share and cooperate. In this stage, in addition to sharing what they like with other children, they also learn to cooperate with their children, such as playing jigsaw puzzles. They read the instructions of the paper while doing it. They work together with their efforts.

And in the process of their cooperation, they not only learn to observe what they say, you learn how to help each other to achieve a win-win situation, but also gain a sense of achievement and increase the fun of the game and the friendship between them.